Yes too often those suggestions to improve the game are suggestion to improve their game. And whenever you see the "I shouldn't be forced" reply it's all about not being able to pick all their run and gun perks simultaneously while they whine to nerf everything else. The reason you can’t pick them all to begin with is because most are to help run and gunners and they whine the most about the few perks that are for other play styles. There has been too much pandering by the developers to help the sub-par wannabe run and gunners.
This is actually why I think Titanfall will be a success. Plenty of mindless bots to kill and everyone gets a titan. As someone else said in another thread everyone gets a participation medal, the game for the entitled.